Mums’ hugs help kids cope with stress

Posted July 29th, 2010 by Wendy
Babies whose mothers shower them with love and affection are better able to cope with stress and anxiety as adults, a new study from the US has found.

July 28, 2010

The Duke University Medical School study followed 500 people from infancy into their thirties, finding that babies who receive above-average levels of affection and attention are less likely to suffer from stress, anxiety, hostility and anger.

Researchers watched the mothers’ behaviour with their eight-month-old babies, ranking them according to what they described as maternal affection — based on the number of times they were negative, cranky, caressing or extravagant.

“Even a simple assessment of the quality of the mother-infant interaction at such an early age captures something very important in terms of the future psychological health of that infant,” lead author of the study and assistant professor at Duke University, Dr Joanna Maselko, said in a media release.

The study’s findings, published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, “make a strong case for policies that would help foster positive interactions between infants and parents, such as paid parental leave,” Dr Maselko said.

The research team also recommended that medical insurance should cover services that would help to develop and strengthen the bond between mother and child, such as baby massage classes.

Mother & Baby expert Sally Cranfield, a baby massage instructor, recommends skin-to-skin contact to create a strong parental bond. This stimulates the production of oxytocin, which calms and relieves pain and helps to reduce the levels of the stress-related hormone cortisol.

“The tradition of baby massage is strong in other cultures, but was lost to ours as baby care became more medicalised,” Sally said.

“Now we’re rediscovering this lovely way of exploring the bond between parent and baby.”

It’s a great way for you to get close to your little one and spend quality time together, and will strengthen the special bond between you, Sally added.

The authors of the Duke University study, however, noted that the finding of their study was still theory-based and that many other factors influenced stress and anxiety levels — including genetics and socioeconomic factors.

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Did you know you have an Attraction Personality?

Posted March 19th, 2010 by Wendy

Well, you do!
Just go to this page

And not just that, your kids have one too!

Don’t worry, almost nobody else knows it either.

About 5000 to 8000 years ago, the ancients formulated
three fundamental personality types, we all have one.

They are:

* HYPERKINETIC

* FLAMMABLE

* EARTHY

Depending on which one is dominant with your child,
they will attract things differently to themselves.

And depending on what your type is, you and your kids
mix and relate to each other in very different ways.

This of course begs the question…

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HOW DOES ONE DISCOVER THE ATTRACTION

PERSONALITY TYPE?
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We’ve gone and made it easy for you. So easy in fact,
well… a kid could do it! :)

Just go to this page:

And you’ll find a tool that calculates your kid’s
dominant personality type automatically.

Just take a minute to answer the twelve easy
multiple choice questions, and you’re done!

Have a great weekend, talk soon!

Wendy Streater
on behalf of the Zero Worry Parenting team

PS. We haven’t set any limits on how much you can
use this cool f-ree tool. Use it on all your kids,
grandkids, godsons… even on yourself. You may find
it very revealing, giving you a taste of what it’s like
to have ‘inside info’ on how Universal Laws work and
interact in our lives. Just go here:

Just go to this page

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BREAKTHROUGH: Law of Attraction for Families!

Posted March 18th, 2010 by Wendy

2010 is well on its way, and it’s time
to show you something extraordinary.

Many people today are already aware of the Law of
Attraction, how it works to make your dreams true.

Right? You make a wish, believe and then receive.

But what happens when you try to apply it to
something that’s not quite so simple…

Such as the relationship with your kids?

Suddenly it’s not so cut & dried anymore, is it.

That’s why this new report attracted our attention:

“Owner’s Manual to Zero Worry Kids’

It’s the first time The Law of Attraction starts
to make sense for parents!

It shows you in practical detail using examples,
how you can activate the Law of Attraction
to work for you in your family.

The foreword is by Bob Doyle, who you surely know
from the movie The Secret.

So go ahead and download the 50-page delight now:
“Owner’s Manual to Zero Worry Kids’

You can thank us later. :)

PPS. Yes, there IS a Secret to applying the Law of Attraction
in parenting… we’ll tell you all about it in the next post.
There are clues hidden in this manual, tell us if you think
you’ve found it!
“Owner’s Manual to Zero Worry Kids’

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Great Gift Idea

Posted March 16th, 2010 by Wendy


1 Photo Mug for $1.99
What a great idea! Get your grandchild’s pictures onto a set of mugs. Show your friends how beautiful your grandchild is while you chat over a cup of coffee.

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Inspired Parenting

Posted March 14th, 2010 by Wendy

Rhonda Ryder has a great course on parenting for today.

It encourages parents to get the best from children by increasing their self-esteem and giving them tools to help them feel in control of their lives. The ideas and suggestions can benefit everyone. Grandparents can use this information too (and Aunties, Uncles, etc).

Get Inspired Parenting

Julie Swatek, president of one of the largest online scrapbooking
companies and one of the 10 parents was interviewed for the Parenting:
Law of Attraction Style program …

Get Inspired Parenting

…and explains how she has been experimenting with “resisting vs.
allowing” in her parenting.

She says when she gives orders to her young children, they often
will “resist” and rebel.

On the flip side, when she rewords her request so that she is
“allowing” them to behave…things go much, MUCH smoother.

Here’s an example from Julie:

“We eat out in restaurants all the time, so I’ve been trying this
with my kids.  Instead of saying ‘Sit down, shhh’, and all of that,
I looked at my son and I said, ‘You know, I really like it when you
can sit quietly and act like a big boy at the table.  Do you think
you would be able to do that?’  ‘Yeah!’ he said, because I was
allowing him to do something instead of forcing him to obey me by
saying, ‘Sit down, be quiet, don’t bang on the table with your
fork’.

We go into this topic, and many others regarding children of all
ages in great depth in this program.

Find Out More Here

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